What's your song??

Because I am in love with Bruno Mars and I cant WAIT for Breaking Dawn to come out ( I know I'm like 12) my song for this weeks link up is his new song for the sound track...



Head over to Goodnight Moon and freshen up your playlist!!!

Grow Up!

We all can act childish, its really very easy to find yourself throwing a tantrum like a two year old. Stomping our feet and yelling and tears, refusing to use your words and sometimes it even works... you get your way because lets face it who wants to deal with a grown up acting this way?!?!

BUT and this is a big but,

Tantrums are the way a child acts because they don't have the ability to tell you what they want. As an adult you should know how to speak to someone with respect and still be able to communicate your point... well at least most adults! Another problem with adult tantrums is that the words that are screamed usually cut like a knife and we all know that once the words are out you cant take them back!  

I guess I am not sure where I am heading with all this... Some one very dear to me was hurt and I am at a loss for what happened. Words hurt, PERIOD.  

"So then, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath; fro the wrath of man does not produce the righteousness of God." James 1: 19-20

Can adults be put in a time-out? 

What's Your Song???

Wow! Can it really be Thursday already??  It has been a cRaZy couple of weeks and so in honor of just needing a day off, here is my song this week!!



What is really funny is that N gets so excited when we hear this song and can pretty much sing all the words!!!  Does that make me a bad mom... letting them listen to "real" music?!?  Oh well!

Enjoy and here's to a LaZy day!!! (but before you settled in head over to Goodnight Moon and link up)

Scaredie Cat

This weekend we got the pleasure to experience Hurricane Irene!!! I actually don't think she was still a hurricane when we met her but it rained for a LONG time and there was some wind but overall we got really lucky!!! The kids enjoyed playing in the rain...

When it first started

Coming down harder now but still fun... 

BUT then the power went out and we thought "okay, we will be fine they will have it back on by morning"! Well, we were wrong!!! We went almost 27 hours without power and I know that is just a small amount of time compared to the others affected and my prayers are still with those families, but it SuCkED!  I kept trying to remind myself that people used to live this way and survived but (this is embarrassing) I am afraid of the dark and hate HATE it!!! I couldn't sleep because I kept thinking about someone or something coming through my window and then I worried about the kids getting to hot but I didn't want to open their window because I wouldn't hear if something happened because the baby monitor doesn't work without electricity!!! (What a nutcase, bet you are feeling for J right about now)

ANYWAY

We are very blessed and our neighbors let us borrow an extension cord that was connected to their generator and it really lifted our spirits... we were able to run a fan and my laptop! So we decided to camp out in our room and watch a movie!

Another benefit of a Hurricane barreling down on the East Coast is that our friends from NC came to ride out the storm with us... YAY!!! Don't get me wrong, four kids under one roof and not being able to get O.U.T can get a little crazy BUT it was great to catch up!!!

So we started the week with an earthquake and ended with a hurricane and I am hoping that Mother Nature is done for awhile!!!

What's your song???

So here we are again, I cant believe it is already Thursday!!! This has been a big week for us, N started school and we have been getting used to his new schedule, changing around nap time for M, and just adjusting!!!

We are so proud for him and he is really enjoying it!!! 

I am sorry that I haven't been better at blogging in between the link up with Goodnight Moon, but it is what it is! I am pretty sure its all about to change and you all will be hearing from me a lot more because I just canceled cable!!! Its time to shake some things up!!! Anyway... 

I actually heard this song coming home from visiting J at work yesterday and it really struck me, I don't think I have heard it before! I kinda stopped listening to Country a few years back but seem to be slowly transitioning back to it because the radio stations up here seem to have the top 40 on repeat and you can only hear a song so many times before it starts getting on your nerves! 

Back to this song... 

While I was listening to it my thoughts immediately turned to J, as they normally do when I hear a love song, and how he is at such a cross-roads right now and how I hope and pray he knows that no matter what he or we are going through I will be there.  How I wish I could help him find peace in his job now and comfort and patience in our future! I hope he knows what an amazing job he does as a husband and father and how grateful I will always be! 

Then I started thinking about N and what a big day he had just had (the 1st day of school and the day we had an earthquake in VA) and how much I want him to know that he can ALWAYS count on me, that I will always be there!!!  I loved him the moment I found out we were pregnant, he was my dream come true!  

So todays song is dedicated to my boys!!! I love you! 

What's your song???

I love this band and this song is beautiful. 

I am just going to let the song to the talking for me today... I have written and re-written this blog about six times and the words are just not working for me today! 

Go check out Goodnight Moon for others that have linked up! (and link up too!!!) 

What's your song???

"Arms" by Christina Perri

J and I have had a really rough go at it this past year but this song PERFECTLY describes how I feel about my love! He is my home and no matter what is going on I know when I am wrapped in his arms everything will be just fine.

So today I am linking up with Goodnight Moon and dedicating this one to my J, my soft place to land, my true home! Love you always and forever!